SAME FIGHT DIFFERENT DAY?
Learn how to end recurring arguments without blame, withdrawal, or walking on eggshells
If you’re tired of going around in circles, hurting each other, shutting down, or wondering why the same conflict keeps coming back, this workshop will help you understand WHAT is really happening between the two of you, HOW it damages your relationship, and HOW to begin changing the pattern together.
Save Your Free Spot for the Live Learn to Fight Fair Workshop
There is nothing quite as discouraging as loving someone deeply and still finding yourselves having the same argument over and over again.
Maybe it’s about money, sex, parenting, chores, family, or something that seems ridiculously small. But before you know it, one of you feels criticized, the other gets defensive, somebody pulls away, somebody pushes harder, and suddenly you’re both hurt and wondering how you got there again.
I know how frustrating that can feel. And I also want you to know that getting stuck in conflict does not mean your relationship is broken. However, it does mean you are in trouble…unless you learn how to fix it.
Very often, two good people who love each other simply get caught in a pattern they don’t yet know how to change.
That’s what we’re going to work on together.
Evan & Cheryl
We learned basic skills we didn't learn in our first marriages - how to communicate deeply, fight fair, show each other appreciation, and improve sexual closeness. Join this workshop - it's really worth it
JOIN ME, DR. CHERYL, LIVE
for a practical and heartfelt couples workshop designed to help you communicate with more care, more clarity, and a whole lot less damage.
Tuesday, September 29th, 2026 @ 5pm Pacific on Zoom
Price $197
FREE
We’ll send your Zoom link and workshop reminders directly to your inbox.
What This Live Workshop Is All About
This is not a class where I give you a bunch of good relationship advice and send you on your way.
You are going to DO THE WORK with me.
I want to help you slow things down enough to see what is actually happening when conflict takes over, because once you understand the pattern, you can begin making different choices inside it.
And that is where change starts.
In This Live Workshop, I’ll Show You:
- Why loving couples can get trapped in the same painful argument again and again
- Why the subject of the fight is often only the surface issue...and how to dig into the real cause
- How patterns like criticism, blame, shutting down, or walking on eggshells pull two people apart
- How to recognize the moment your usual conflict pattern is beginning so you have a better chance of changing direction before things get ugly.
- A practical conflict tool you can begin using together, so you leave with something you can actually try the next time a difficult conversation comes up.
You will also have the opportunity to ask me your questions, and I may invite a few volunteers to join me on camera for some direct coaching.
My goal is not to teach you how to never fight.
That is unrealistic. Conflict is part of relationship.
My goal is to help you learn how to fight fair, tomove through conflict without losing sight of the person you love and to learn to apologize and begin again.
Come Ready to Work on Your Relationship With Me
If you can attend together, I strongly encourage it.
Set aside the time, close the laptops, put the phones down, pour yourselves a cup of tea or a glass of wine, and make this an hour devoted to your relationship.
You don’t have to come in angry or bring your worst fight.
And you certainly don’t have to prove that your partner is the problem.
Just bring some curiosity about what happens between the two of you when things get hard.
If your partner can’t attend, please come anyway. You can still learn a great deal by understanding your own part of the pattern, and sometimes one person changing their steps can begin changing the whole dance.
There is no homework required. I simply suggest that you think about one recurring disagreement that tends to pull you both into the same familiar place.
And if you are attending together, try making this agreement before we start:
“We are not here to prove who is right. We are here to understand each other better.”
That is a beautiful place to begin.
Ready to Find a Better Way Through the Same Old Fight?
Join me LIVE on September 29th @ 5pm Pacific and let’s look at what keeps happening between you, what may be underneath it, and how you can begin creating a healthier way forward together.
Jeff & Joan
I was so busy with my business I wasn't paying attention to my relationship. After learning Dr. Cheryl's techniques, our marriage is better than it has ever been. We now go on date nights, always kiss goodnight, and I understand my wife's point of view much better!
Hi, I'm Dr. Cheryl…
I’ve been searching for the secret to long-term love and passion since I found out that Shaun Cassidy was NOT my soulmate after all.
My search led me to an award winning career as a relationship expert with a PhD in psychology & sex therapy, a talk radio show giving love and sex advice, a couples book Buddha's Bedroom and invitations to teach for folks like Tony Robbins and Jack Canfield.
But it was way harder figuring out love for myself. I eloped to Greece and exchanged vows Mamma Mia style – but two years later my beloved and I threw our wedding crowns into the ocean and called it quits.
But I kept training. I wanted to distill the science of relationship, sex, and communication into a practical, skills based model - the 3 Keys to Passion. Eventually I applied my hard-won knowledge to helping couples and to my own dating life. And ... I got married again and this time we practice what I preach and CREATE our relationship, each and every day.
And now I want to share the skills needed for great relationship with you.
This free Learn To Fight Fair workshop is the culmination of everything I’ve learned in 25 years of working with couples and being a partner myself, for better and worse, from divorce to loving again.
This FREE training is my love letter to couples everywhere who want more.
And it’s yours—absolutely free—for a limited time.
Lifelong passion is possible. So let's get started.
💋 Dr. Cheryl Fraser
