Introducing
BECOME PASSION - CREATE LOVE THAT LASTS A LIFETIME
A Program for Couples
Re-Ignite Love, Romance, and Passion
and Fall in Love With Your Partner All Over Again
Enroll in Become Passion - Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime Today
Pay Monthly
3 Monthly Payments of
$497
OR
Pay in Full
1 Payment of
$1495
IF you’re ready to create lifelong passion + love with your partner while avoiding falling back into lazy love habits - If you are ready to become an exceptional couple, to Become Passion, together...
Here's how the Become Passion Program will help you get there:
The Become Passion Couples Course Curriculum - 8 Weeks of Online Video Lessons, Exercises, Worksheets, and Couples & Sexuality Techniques
PLUS
Ten Live Group Coaching Sessions with me, Dr. Cheryl - where I offer extra teaching and answer YOUR relationship questions. This kind of exclusive personal access and support is what sets the Become Passion program apart. (To give you a comparison point, my couples coaching fee is $10,000 for eight sessions. You receive ten group sessions as part of your program)
PLUS Multiple Bonus classes with world-renowned couples and sexuality experts. (Seriously. Google them!)
Become Passion Couples Program - Overview of Weekly Course Content
Week 1 - The Passion Triangle - The Secrets to Lifelong Love
Deep, lifelong, sustainable passion is absolutely possible. But it is not an accident. You need to Become Passion, not wait around for passion to spontaneously appear. This week focuses on teaching you the three building blocks of a great relationship - the passion triangle.
You will start by rating your relationship - where are you strong on the Three Keys to Passion, where are you weak?
Lesson Highlights:
- Passion is 100% possible - No matter where your relationship is now, it can be much, much better - and this is how
- Setting Passion Priorities - How creating your your lover list gives you a roadmap to the relationship you desire
- Why you must create New Passion Patterns - because if you don't, you'll slide back into old habits (I'm talking sweatpants and ice cream instead of tango and tantra!)
Week 2 - Intimacy I - Communication, Fighting Fair, and Letting your Sweetie into your Heart
Emotional Intimacy is the foundation of the passion triangle, and of a great relationship. And communication builds intimacy. This week, you will discover that your partner is never wrong - (say what?!) - they are just different. You will learn the tools to ensure you never have a pointless, damaging, destructive argument ever again. Why? Because research shows great couples manage conflict skillfully. Sure, you will argue, but it is HOW you argue that predicts happiness or divorce. Skillful communication will deepen your trust and connection. (And let's face it, fighting is terrible foreplay).
Lesson Highlights
- Intimacy Self-Test - Are you brave enough to get vulnerable?
- Would you rather be Happy or Right? Perspective taking (or - your way is not always the only good way!)
- Time-Out technique for Grown ups - how to handle emotional flooding and stop destructive arguments
Week 3 - Intimacy II - Kill the Soulmate and Save Your Relationship (plus - touch each other more!)
This week, you will learn to stop longing for a perfect partner. Yes indeed - unrealistic expectations will ruin your relationship. No flesh-and-blood human can live up to the person in your head! Couples who master the secrets to great relationship understand that their partner is not responsible for making them happy (good news - that means you are off the hook for making your sweetie happy, too.) This week you will also practice some beautiful deep connection rituals - involving words, and involving touch. After all, when is the last time you snuggled naked, or held hands while you walked the dog?
Lesson Highlights:
- Touch More, Touch Often - The seven-day pledge for touch intimacy
- The most important 30-minute communication exercise you will ever learn. Trust me.
- Dr. Cheryl's 7/10 list & non- negotiables - getting clarity about what you need and what you won't tolerate in your relationship
Week 4 - Intimacy III - How to Commit 100%, Apologize like a pro, and build unshakeable trust
Even great couples mess up sometimes. But they know how to repair. Past hurts can really get in the way of trust, connection, and love. This week, you will focus on creating unshakeable commitment - No Matter What. Clear up past hurts, take out the emotional baggage, and begin again, together, in this moment.
Lesson Highlights:
- Your partner is always fascinating - learn to see them again without the filter of that past - tools to deepen intimacy
- The 100% 90-Day Commitment Challenge (You'll never have great passion if you hold back a piece of your heart)
- Taking the Emotional Baggage Out - Don't let old wounds accumulate - a forgiveness ritual
Week 5 - Thrill - How to Re-Ignite Excitement and Attraction
The most ridiculous love myth is that the thrill can't last forever. Nonsense! Sure, most couples lose that loving feeling - but that's because they don't know how to cultivate thrill. Remember, passion is a teachable skill. Imagine you (or your mate) meeting a new, attractive colleague. That person then makes it clear they find you interesting, funny, and cute. It feels great when someone is truly interested in us, right? Uh huh. It's also the #1 cause of affairs. Sooo...are you and your beloved making each other feel special? This week, you will learn how to approach each other with curiosity and excitement. Then you can fall in love again, with the one you are already with.
Lesson Highlights:
- The Appreciation Technique - Research shows this simple ritual, which takes just five minutes a day, increases marriage satisfaction - A LOT
- Get Curious - Ask interesting questions. Your mate is still fascinating. (That stranger who found them attractive sure thinks so). Get interested - using this fun, powerful technique
- 30-day Thrill challenge - Commit to creating excitement and play. Plan some romantic adventures (it turns out adventure literally increases attraction)
Week 6 - Sensuality I - How to Become a Great Lover
What makes you a fantastic lover? How can you greatly expand your sensual repertoire? This week, you will learn how to make sex your hobby, and to put the play back in foreplay. And of course, in order to be a great lover, you need some basic facts. This week you'll hear about the physiology of orgasms, multiple orgasms, fake orgasms, and the sexual response cycle. And you will explore what actually turns you on...and learn what turns your partner on, and what they would like to try. You may be surprised.
Lesson Highlights:
- Orgasm facts and faking - and why the clitoris is queen (The female orgasm can be elusive, but every woman can become orgasmic)
- Sharing an erotic story technique
- Sexual Response Cycle - arousal, resolution and multiple orgasms (yes, men can also have multiple orgasms!)
Week 7 - Sensuality II - Arousal, Desire, and Sexual Differences - How to explore a New Eroticism, Together
Great sex is all in your head. What gets in the way of your sex drive? This week you will explore the difference between arousal and desire. You'll also begin to solve the most common sexual problem partners report - you want sex, they don't. I'll teach you how to Never Say "I'm not in the mood" ever again. (PS -you are normal. The majority of long-term couples do not feel spontaneous desire.) The good news? You can learn the two keys to your erotic engine and how to turn yourself, and your lover, on...even when you are tired, the taxes are due, and you forgot to buy eggs for tomorrow. You will learn when sexual fantasy helps your sex life, and when it hinders. And you will start to use your body in new ways - becoming an awakened lover instead of a lazy lover!
Lesson Highlights:
- A solution to sexual desire differences - Your erotic engine and the female sexual response cycle
- Your sex drive - physical, psychological & relationship factors
- How to improve your sex life - starting today. The body sensuality challenge - develop eroticism and explore new pathways to pleasure
Week 8 - Sensuality III - Bring some Lust to your Love and Create your Passion Plan
Now it's time to create a powerful, passionate, loving sexuality that lasts. How can you expand your sensual spectrum from gentle, sweet love making to spicy hot sex and back again? How can you explore the taboos that entice you, and connect dark sexual energy with love? Add some toys and techniques to your sensual life and play with all aspects of your sexual being. Teach each other how to become awakened lovers.
Lesson Highlights:
- Sensual energy has limitless possibilities. It's time to move beyond your "nipple nipple crotch goodnight" routine and explore new turn ons, together
- Dark sensual energy, spicy taboos, and your beloved. The #1 female sexual fantasy (yes, women have very strong sex drives - once they unleash!)
- Sensual toys - For-play can be way more fun
- Why scheduling sex IS romantic - and why you need to do it
- Sensual IOU's and the passion pledge
Plus - Weekly LIVE Group Coaching and Q & A with Dr. Cheryl. This is where you'll take action on all that new learning...with me as your guide
Online courses - like the Become Passion Program course curriculum - are a fantastic way to teach. But research shows you are WAY more likely to succeed if you have support and accountability. Remember, I have 23 years of experience helping couples succeed. I no longer work with couples 1:1 because I can help you more deeply by combining a detailed course curriculum with personal group coaching - for a much smaller cost. This way I can help many more couples - and that's my mission. So I will be with you live each and every week for ten weeks. I'm going to be there to support you and help you meet your relationship goals.
Each week, I will teach extra content - for example, some probable topics are
- Planning Weekly Dates
- How to Prevent - or Recover from - Affairs
- Common Sexual Problems
- Tantric Sexuality and more
I'll also leave plenty of time for Q&A - so I can help you with your unique problems and explorations.
That's 10 hours of group coaching with me. And I so look forward to it.
Bonus 1 - "Building Healthy Relationships" classes in the Gottman therapy technique
In these Bonus Classes I interview my esteemed colleague in the field of Gottman couples therapy.You'll learn specific tools & skills to help you become an extraordinary couple.
The Topics are
- The Seven Factors of Successful Marriage
- The Four Predictors of Divorce - And how to Fix Them
Bonus 2 - "Cultivating a Satisfying Sexual Life" - classes with world-class sexuality experts
I interview some of my esteemed colleagues in the field of sex therapy and research.
Topics include
- Mindful Sex and Female Sexual Desire with Dr. Lori Brotto - Author of Better Sex through Mindfulness
- What Turns Women On? with Dr. Marta Meana, author of Sexual Dysfunction in Women
(Honestly, their knowledge and tools alone are worth the price of the program. Seriously. Google them.)
Become Passion Money Back Guarantee
Let me give it you you straight, my dear reader.
I know that couples who practice the Become Passion techniques, who commit to creating a more loving, passionate relationship, and who do the work will improve their communication, re-spark fun, attraction, and excitement, and create a more satisfying, spicy, sexual life. I've helped hundreds of couples transform from lonely, unhappy, and on the relationship rocks to connected, joyful, sexy, and in love again.
I also know this can feel like a big commitment. So I am offering you a 30-day money back guarantee. If you are not satisfied that the Become Passion Roadmap can help you define your relationship goals, manage conflict better, and show you how to improve your romantic and sensual life, I will refund your investment.
But change doesn't happen if you don't make effort! So, if after 30 days from the start of the Become Passion course you can demonstrate that you have listened to the lessons and done the exercises (by sending me completed Home Play sheets and a video of you using the communication exercises) - and you tell me that Become Passion program is not benefiting your relationship - your refund will be granted. With a smile.
Here’s what you’re getting when you enroll today:
- Become Passion - Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime Online Couples Course - including 8 weeks of video lessons, worksheets, couples exercises, and more - $1997 Value
- Ten Weekly Live Group Coaching and Q&A sessions with Dr. Cheryl - $2500 Value
- Bonus classes with World-Class Expert in Gottman Marriage Therapy - Predictors of Divorce & Seven Factors of Successful Marriage - Value $500
- Bonus classes with World-Class Experts in Sex Therapy - Female Sexual Desire & Mindful Sexuality - Value $500
- When you add it up, that's a
Total Value of $5,497.00
(which is still less than months of couples counselling)
But when you enroll in this program today, you’ll receive everything for just:
Pay Monthly
3 Monthly Payments of
$497
OR
Pay In Full
1 Payment of
$1495
Questions Couples ask before enrolling in Become Passion
Good question!
By training, I am a Clinical Psychologist and Sex Therapist. I've worked with couples in private practice for twenty years - as well as giving love advice on TV and radio, writing magazine columns on love and sex, and teaching internationally for Tony Robbins and others. I know that sex is not separate from the whole of your relationship!
Become Passion is not a program that focuses just on the sexual part of your life. The foundational training is the Passion Triangle - the 3 keys to Passion. As you see in the descriptions of the weekly content, you will learn about Emotional Intimacy - how to handle difficult conversations, how to fight fair, what to do when you feel disconnected and lonely, and much more. This is what some researchers call "Relationship Friendship" - and it strongly predicts how happy you are. You will also cultivate Thrill - reviving the interest, excitement, and playfulness you had when you were dating. Sensuality - your erotic and sexual life - is the third part of the Passion Triangle.
Look, extraordinary relationships are about as common as a saxaphone-playing unicorn. BUT THEY DO EXIST. And those couples have mastered the keys to passion. The Become Passion program is designed to give you the roadmap, the knowledge, and the skills to help you to create great love, communication, friendship, and fun, as well as great sex.
It's the whole package.
In a word, yes. I've worked with many couples in therapy, and while I love the in-person model, it is an expensive, time consuming and logistically difficult process for many couples.
Think about it. You have to coordinate three schedules - you, your spouse, and the therapist - pay for a baby sitter, drive, park, and then pay $300-$500 an hour for therapy. And much of what you will learn in therapy can be taught in a course.
With the Become Passion program you choose a time or two that works for you each week, settle on the couch, and watch the Become Passion lessons. You commit to doing the exercises. And together you discover the keys to passion and build your tool box.
The Become Passion course is not psychotherapy. It is education, advice, and training that fit into your life and provide you actionable tools for real change.
And don't worry - I'm going to be there to support you and help you meet your Passion goals. In the 8 weekly coaching sessions, you can ask specific questions about your own relationship. That's 12 Bonus hours of special coaching with me...
FOR FREE.
What's more, you will get special bonus classes on topics including Mindful Sex, the Differences between Men and Women, Female Sexual Desire, The keys to a great marriage, and the predictors of divorce - and so much more - with my colleagues - leading experts in their fields - sex therapists, psychologists, couples therapists and researchers - to supplement the Become Passion content and bring even more tools and techniques to your love affair.
No way! When you purchase Become Passion - Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime - you receive LIFETIME access to the course lessons, bonuses, and extra content.
What does that mean?
The course is delivered online. You have a unique password to log in. After the course ends - 8-weeks of content, coaching calls, and bonus teaching - all the material is available to you for as long as I run that business (likely many years - or at least until every couple on the planet is happy, passionate, sexy, and in love!)
If you miss a live coaching call or want to watch it again, no worries -all calls will be recorded and archived in your course platform.
If you cannot attend a coaching call live, you can submit your question to my via email and I will answer it during the Q & A - which you can watch when your schedule allows!
Some couples will want to work through the program together once, then go back once a year for a refresher.
I'm here to help, and I've got your back!
If I had a dime for every time I've heard a couple say this...I'd be driving James Bond's Aston Martin. :)
But hey, in all seriousness, be kind to yourself. Most of us get overwhelmed by the demands of work, parenting, and life and end up in "Marriage Inc." - running the business of our family but NOT cultivating our love life. It is bound to happen sometimes.
But...
Great relationships are not an accident. If you want something enough, you carve out time. And you clearly want a great relationship - or you wouldn't have read this far.
Become Passion is taught in weekly modules. Each week there are 3-5 video lessons. You can watch them all at once - approximately 60-70 minutes of content a week - or watch each 10-20 minute lesson on it's own.
All you need is an intention - "I want to Cultivate Love that Lasts a Lifetime" - and an internet connection and boom - you are on the way.
And if you fall a bit behind, remember you get lifetime access to the program. You can watch and re-watch. So even when life gets in the way, you will have your Passion Roadmap waiting for you.
You bet!
The juicy bonus that might just be the MOST helpful is the series of live weekly group coaching sessions with me. I'll be live on camera for these calls, and you will be able to ask questions. Every week, I will teach extra content - for example, some probable topics are
- How to Prevent Affairs
- Common Sexual Problems
- How to Fight Fair
- Tantric Sexuality
- and much more
In the 8 weekly coaching sessions, you can ask specific questions about your own relationship.
That's 12 Bonus hours of special coaching with me
FOR FREE.
(To give you an idea of the value, I take only five couples a year as VIP private coaching clients - and they pay $750 an hour)
Then - You will get a series of Bonus Classes with Industry Experts. Topics include
- Mindful Sex and Female Sexual Desire with Dr. Lori Brotto - Author of Better Sex through Mindfulness
- The Seven Factors of Successful Marriage and the Four Predictors of Divorce with Lawrence Stoyanowski - Senior Gottman Marriage Therapy Facilitator
- The Good Enough Sex model with Dr. Barry McCarthy - author of more than 15 books on sex therapy including Enhancing Couple Sexuality, Rekindling Desire, and Coping with Erectile Dysfunction
- Relational Self Awareness - Making your Marriage Great with Dr. Alexandra Solomon, author of Loving Bravely and Taking Sexy Back
- and more
I'm delighted and honored that my friends and colleagues have offered their time and expertise to the Become Passion curriculum. Honestly, their knowledge and tools alone are worth the price of the program.
Absolutely. I wish I'd had more knowledge and skills in my previous relationships. I left a trail of chaos in my wake as I blundered through this thing called love.
Singles who have worked with me say they learn so much more about their own communication styles. They dazzle their next date by being open, curious, and able to negotiate difficult conversations (and they ask their new sweetie to watch Become Passion with them - because you have lifetime access to the course online!)
Plus, this program is great if you are newly dating. You will gain skills you can use early on to learn how to manage conflict and deepen intimate connection. How to nurture thrill so it doesn't fade.
And sexually - you will be better able to explore, learn your partners sexual style, invite them into the dark, taboo, erotic realms you'd like to play.
So come join us!
When your love relationship isn't thriving, it hurts. What's more, research shows us that the strength of our love relationship predicts our overall happiness better than any other factor.
Don't take your partner for granted. Even the best couples can lose their connection when the demands of life take over.
Great Love and Passion are possible. But they take effort. Whether the Become Passion course feels right for you - please take action today in some manner to Make Love Matter.
Buy a couples book and work through it. Call a marriage therapist. Surprise your beloved with a weekend getaway. Lick chocolate off their knees.
The Become Passion program is one method to help you and your partner bring your love affair front and center. Each week is like a series of Gym Classes for your Passionate life. In my opinion, it's a fantastic way to get support to help you create the change you want. (After all, it's the sum total of what I've learned over a career dedicated to finding the secrets to long lasting love and passion)
So I invite you to grab your shoes and head to the Love Gym - join me in Become Passion.
Here’s what you’re getting when you enroll today:
- Become Passion - Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime Online Couples Course - including 8 weeks of video lessons, worksheets, couples exercises, and more - $1997 Value
- Weekly Live coaching and Q & A sessions with Dr. Cheryl - $1600 Value
- Bonus classes with World-Class Experts in Marriage Therapy - Gottman Marriage Therapy, Predictors of Divorce, and more - Value $500
- Bonus classes with World-Class Experts in Sex Therapy - Female Sexual Desire, How to Enjoy the Sex You are Having, and more - Value $500
- When you add it up, that's a
Total Value of $4,597.00
But when you enroll today, you’ll receive everything for just:
Pay Monthly
3 Monthly Payments of
$497
OR
Pay In Full
1 Payment of
$1495
How to Know if You’re Ready to Take Action, learn to Become Passion, and Create the Love you Crave (and that you and your beloved deserve)
- Your relationship is good, but the passion and thrill are lacking - you want to go from good to great. You want to be lovers, not just companions raising a family...
- You are in pain. Perhaps you are recovering from an affair, or your spouse has checked out of your relationship, or you've stopped having sex and the walls of resentment and distance are getting thicker...and you really need some help
- You are sick and tired of the same arguments, disappointments and doubts - you want to renovate your love affair from the inside out. You want to fall in love again with your mate!
- You want to explore sexual lust and bring some erotic spark back into your relationship. Maybe you struggle with attraction and desire, maybe you've just gotten lazy, or maybe you've never had the courage to tell your partner what you really want in bed...
- You know great love is not an accident, and you know you need to put in some work. But you need some clear teachings, and a path the two of you can walk, together. You need a Love Toolbox!
- You've already read some relationship books or even tried couples counselling - but you want a new approach to improving your love and passion. Something that you can fit into your busy life, something you can learn and explore together. The Become Passion program is designed to do just that.
- You are in a new relationship and want to learn the specific skills that help you keep the thrill alive, longterm.
- You know, deep inside, that even though relationships can be really difficult, love skills can be learned. And you know you CAN be one of the extraordinary couples - and you are ready to take action. You are excited to follow a stepwise path - based in the best research on love and sexual satisfaction - that will teach you the Three Keys to Passion.
A final thought from me to you...
If you said “yes” to any of the above, I can’t wait to meet you inside Become Passion - Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime. I will personally guide you on this profound exploration of love and passion. Because learning the skills I will be teaching you literally transformed my own life a well. "Love Expert" or not, if there is a relationship mistake to be made, I've probably made it. I know from the inside what it's like to go from I Do to Divorce...but I also know how to create an exceptional relationship the next time around (just ask my sweetheart!) More than anything else, I want to share that with you, today.
xoxo Cheryl
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